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Short Natural Hair Style

CATEGORY: BEAUTY

For years I admired women who embraced natural hair. I wanted to do the same but didn’t have enough self-esteem, and when I think about my childhood, it doesn’t surprise me at all.

I grew up in Prague, the capital of the Czech Republic. My mom is Czech, and my biological father is from Guinea. As you can imagine, I was the only mixed kid at the elementary school and later at the high-school.

To say that people were always fascinated with my skin color and my natural hair would be a euphemism. Their comments made me feel like an ugly duckling. To give you an example, my cousins always wanted to touch my hair because it was “weird”. I felt like an exotic monkey. I dreamed about long straight hair and when the first African hair salon opened in Prague, I was the first to have it relaxed.

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When I was at University, I got the opportunity to live and study in London and later in Turku, Finland. Once I got exposed to a multicultural environment, I knew I couldn’t live in Prague anymore. Furthermore, I noticed that men found me attractive and thus, there was nothing wrong with me.

I believe that there is nothing wrong with us. Sometimes, we just live at a place that doesn’t get us. And all we need to do is find where we belong.

I have been living in Switzerland for thirteen years and most of the time I got my hair straightened. It was not until last year when I turned forty and started to feel comfortable in my body. I stopped feeling the need to be likable and to prove myself to others. I got tired of the money and time I spent on having my hair straightened. Brazilian Keratin treatment can easily leave you 300$ lighter. A few weeks back when I was sitting on hairdresser’s chair, deciding what to do next, I chose to cut it all off.

It was liberating.

I want to say that I took this decision because I don’t want to conform to Western standards of beauty or that I wanted to make a political statement. But truth be told, natural hair mirrors who I am, how I feel, and that I finally own my narrative.

Have you ever cut your hair short? How did it make you feel?

3 Comments
  • Helene Goldnadel
    12.08.2019

    Your hair can be your ultimate fashion statement as you can easily style and cut it to go with your fashion sense.

  • Jennifer
    17.07.2019

    In 6th grade, I cut my hair chin length. I cried because I hate it. I’m not sure I’d ever go that short again.

    Jennifer
    Effortlessly Sophisticated

    • Miri
      17.07.2019

      I am sure you looked beautiful! We are always so critical of our teenage self. 😘

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