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Gratitude to Change The Attitude

CATEGORY: FASHION

white ruffle blouse/ currently wearingThe other day I left work on time, managed to catch an early train expecting that I will pick up Chloe-Sofia from daycare by 6pm. I arrived to the train station (which is 3 KM away from our village), but the local train, that I was supposed to take, broke down. There was no taxi around and I had 30 minutes before they close the daycare. Alex was on a business trip so I had to walk. Luckily, our daycare is only 5 minutes walk from our house so I just needed to get to our village as soon as possible. 

While I was walking I felt angry, helpless and frustrated. And for reasons that I can’t explain, I decided to listen to one of Melissa Ambrossini‘s podcasts.

One of the first sentences that reached my mind was that in every situation we have two 2 options: either you accept it or try to change it. All I could do at that moment was to accept my reality of walking home. I had no other choice. I had to surrender. She also mentioned gratitude as a catalyzer of change. I looked around and saw roses in the garden that I was passing by, blue sky, beautiful Lake Geneva and started feeling grateful for being healthy and able to walk.

If you feel down, helpless and lost, find something you can be grateful for. Simple act of gratitude, when practice regularly, can turn your life around. I have a sticker on my computer screen at work which says: “I Am Grateful For…” Most of the time I am grateful for being healthy and sane. I know there is much more I can be grateful for but without health and sanity we can’t do much. 

I am sure that right now you can find at least one thing you can be grateful for. What would it be? 

L‘autre jour, je me suis organisée de façon à quitter le travail à temps pour prendre un train plus tôt et ainsi aller chercher Chloe-Sofia à la garderie pour 18h. Arrivée à la gare (3 km de notre village), le train local que je devais prendre n’était pas là. Il n’y avait pas de taxi et il restait 30 minutes avant la fermeture de la garderie. Alex était en voyage d’affaires, j’ai dû donc marcher. Heureusement, notre garderie se trouve à seulement 5 minutes à pied de la maison. 

Dès lors, le défi était d’arriver à notre village le plus vite possible.

Pendant que je marchais, j’étais en colère, impuissante et frustrée. Pour des raisons que je ne peux expliquer, j’ai décidé d’écouter l’un des podcasts de Melissa Ambrossini.

L‘une des premières phrases qui a frappé mon esprit était que dans toutes les situations, nous avons deux options: soit vous l’acceptez, soit vous essayiez de le changer. Tout ce que je pouvais faire à ce moment-là était d’accepter ma réalité de marcher. Je n’avais pas d’autres choix. Melissa Ambrossini mentionne aussi la gratitude comme catalyseur du changement. J’ai regardé autour de moi et j’ai vu des roses dans le jardin par où je passais, le ciel bleu, le magnifique lac Léman et je me suis sentie reconnaissante d’être en bonne santé et capable de marcher.

Si vous vous sentez déçue et perdue, trouvez quelque chose de quoi vous pouvez être reconnaissant. J’ai un autocollant sur mon écran d’ordinateur au travail qui dit: “Je suis reconnaissant pour …” La plupart du temps, je suis reconnaissante d’être en bonne santé. Il y a beaucoup d’autres choses pour lesquelles je peux être reconnaissante, mais sans une bonne santé physique et mentale, nous ne pouvons pas faire beaucoup.

Je suis sûr que maintenant, vous pouvez trouver au moins une chose dont vous pouvez être reconnaissant. Qu’est ce que ça serait?

 

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New Look heels (alternative, 40EUR)
Furla Mini Metropolis handbag, EUR245

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44 Comments
  • Gemma
    16.06.2017

    What an inspiring post! You really managed to make the best of a bad situation. I absolutely love your outfit here today too. The trousers are so pretty!

    I hope you have a lovely weekend.

    Gemma x
    http://www.jacquardflower.uk

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Ohh, you are so sweet, Gemma, Thank you and hugs all the to the UK! XO

  • Xenia
    16.06.2017

    So true, Miri! La beaute est dans l’oeil de celui qui regarde…
    The older I get, the more grateful I am, but I have been particularly grateful since my little girl was born. Every day is a blessing!

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Those are such beautiful words, Xenia. Thank you for sharing them with us. Hugs

  • Such a lovely post and message babe! Couldn’t agree more that we either can accept something or change it. Often it’s just about seeing the positive, being grateful and change what you don’t like about it. Have a lovely weekend babe! Xx

    http://www.thefashionfolks.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      You are totally right, sweetie. Happy weekend to you as well. XO

  • Mary
    16.06.2017

    Such a beautiful post dear! love your outfit as well! the bag is so cute x Hugs, Mary

    http://www.marypolka.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you so much, Mary. XO

  • laura anne
    16.06.2017

    I’ve really been trying to practice being grateful! I’m trying to learn and practice Law Of Attraction. Your outfit is so fresh and summery – I love the Furla bag x

    LAURA ­| Laura Thinks About

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you, Laura. The Furla Mini Metropolis is an amazing bag but a bit small. If you want a handbag that fits your wallet, I recommend getting the regular size.:-) Big hugs

  • Dasynka
    16.06.2017

    I’m feeling so near to your state of mind, and I could add “either you accep it AND try to change it”. It’s the only way to face up to life <3
    With love,
    Dasynka
    http://dasynka.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you for sharing, Dasynka. Big hugs

  • Violette
    16.06.2017

    J’adore ton post, c’est tellement encouragent et tu as complètement raison! Je suis très reconnaissante envers ma famille qui a beaucoup été là lors de cet accident que j’ai eu il y a quelques années. Bon weekend!

    http://violettedaily.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you for sharing, ma belle. I think family is the most important. We should be grateful if we have parents and siblings that support and encourage us. Big hugs

  • yuka
    16.06.2017

    I love the pops of red in this look!

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  • Joti
    16.06.2017

    I love the red touches in your look! And you are so right, things we are grateful for are something to think about when you’re down. It helps!!

    http://www.stylebymemory.com

  • LUCINDA SKEATS
    16.06.2017

    Love that top! The ruffles are such a great statement piece. Xx, Lucinda
    http://www.serendipitylace.com

  • Camila
    16.06.2017

    Girl, this top is so perfect for the summer. Goes with everything and you styled this outfit so well!

    Camila,
    My Vogue Style | http://www.myvoguestyle.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Hi Camila, I agree. It is one of my best buys of this summer. XO

  • mainou
    16.06.2017

    lovely post. thank you for sharing =)
    -mainou
    http://www.looksbymc.com

  • Lyndi
    16.06.2017

    Such a pretty look for summer! Love your hat
    Lyndi

    http://www.stylecalling.com

  • Izabela
    15.06.2017

    I completely agree with you that we need to appreciate every little thing. Ever since I started practising gratitude I’ve noticed how my outlook on life changed.

    Her Hive

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      I am not surprised, Izabela. Gratitude changes our attitude dramatically to the better. XO

  • Jalisa
    15.06.2017

    First off, I’m sorry you had to go through such an inconvenience, I can imagine how frustrating that must have been at first. I love that you caught yourself and turned your attitude around with the prompting of her podcast, it’s amazing the power our thoughts can have on our emotions, isn’t it?! You’re right, there is always something to be thankful for and when we purposefully challenge ourselves to highlight those things, it puts everything into perspective. As for your outfit, I love those pants, the red lace details are so pretty and I love that red lippie on you! Thanks for sharing, beauty, and I hope you’re having a great week so far!

    XO,

    Jalisa
    http://www.thestylecontour.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you dear friend! How are you feeling? You have only 2 weeks left, haven’t you? Big hugs

  • Chloe
    15.06.2017

    This outfit looks perfect for the Summer! 🙂 i love the large sleeves and the embroidered pants! They make such a good pair together.

    xo, Chloe // http://funinthecloset.com/90s-combo-look/

  • Elise
    15.06.2017

    I am grateful for my family and friends, always. This is a beautiful look! Love your embroidered pants!

    xx, Elise
    http://www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Family and friends, that is something I am grateful for as well. :-)) XO

  • Pamolina
    15.06.2017

    Perfect summer look <3

    xxPamolina
    http://www.pamolina.com

    • Miri
      16.06.2017

      Thank you Pamolina. XO

  • Len Parent
    15.06.2017

    You look absolutely amazing, Miri! Loving this look on you! What a beautiful top!!!
    Happy almost Friday!!!
    Much love, Len
    http://www.lenparent.com
    XO

    • Miri
      15.06.2017

      Thank you so much, Len. Hugs

  • Didier
    15.06.2017

    I do feel that as a society, we tend to focus on the bad things that happen to us rather than all the good things we are blessed with. I totally agree with you. We should be grateful for all the things we have in life. It makes life so much easier and happier!

    -Didier
    http://www.didieryhc.com

    • Miri
      15.06.2017

      Thank you, Didier. I really appreciate your stopping by. Hugs all the way to Canada!

  • Dresscape
    15.06.2017

    Such a beautiful look and pretty pictures! 🙂 And thanks for sharing this positivity! I am grateful for being a student at the university and be able now to enjoy huge amounts of free time in the Summer to focus on creative projects 🙂
    Have a great day,

    xx

    Claire from Dresscape
    http://www.dresscape.com

    • Miri
      15.06.2017

      Hi Claire, thank you for sharing what you are grateful for. Big hugs, sweetie.

  • diana
    15.06.2017

    Thats such a nice thought, it immediately puts things into perspective. Lovely look btw x
    http://sweatshirtsanddresses.com

    • Miri
      15.06.2017

      Thank you for stopping by, sweetie. XO

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